Wednesday, June 21, 2017

A letter to the man who made me a single mom

I laid my head in your arms as you looked down at me and told me you loved me. It’s been one thousand two hundred and thirty-four days since I welcomed our daughter into the world. Being a single mother is one of the greatest achievements for a woman.


You become a mother and a father at the same. The Sound Of Silence (Lessons Of A Single Mom ) How to Date a Single Mom.

Sometimes I miss the old life I use to have, the one I shared with you. It means a lot to me because it is the words that I often wish I heard from the men I dated. But I didn’t rush it. As life goes, things happen when they happen, and the day came when I had you. You work at that crappy customer service job just so you could buy the clothes on your children’s back.


I was years young. You made sure they had access to health insurance for every shot required by the school district and for anytime your children had the flu.

So I decided to write my heart, from me to all of you, in the hopes that it blesses you or gives you a glimpse into the world of being a single mom. You deal with guilt and wonder and hope and lots and lots and lots of work. The kind of man whose unconditional love, time and attention won’t ever be something that is questioned. A man who is as warm as the bright sun and as constant as the moon.


I am single and I have one child (under age 5). So yeah, I’m a “single mom. I hate the stereotype that comes along with it. I don’t want anyone’s pity.


It’s just been me and him for the last two years. So mom , this one is for you. Letter From A Single Mom. An amazing young man with a heart as big as the world you are entering. Day and night, you taught me patiently.


On bedtime, I would lay down beside you and taught me how to pray after that you would sing children songs for me until I fall asleep—and mom , I thank you for that. Unable to have children, this single man adopted a 12-year-old boy. Thank you for loving me when I am not so lovable.

The letter he received from the child proved just what a lucky new dad he was. Here is the transcript, unedite and unbelievably touching. The judge jailed three chlildren for not having a healthy relationship with their estranged father.


RELATED: Things You Must Know About Dating A Single Mom. Waiting too long to start dating. This was the best letter ever. He will be graduating in weeks and headed off to college.


You wrote exactly what I would have wrote for my son. It was very touching. I hope all is well with you and your family.


And I’m ever so proud of having brought progressive , beautiful people into the world. Your letter made me reflect on the beauty of being a parent…I thank you. Gained a loyal follower …. Single mom life is har but we know you can do more than just survive!


Discover how to change for surviving to thriving. I really do believe that. You are an angel sent from heaven to watch over me. I will never forget that.


You were that voice of reason that reminded me to love myself more.

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